It’s all the rage now with BMG meeting The Red Pill meeting Youtube, but choosing signals has always been problematic in the game.
PAIMAI (pre approach invitation, male approach invitation) was something guys used to run into the clubs. Out handling his business, and a chick/and her friends would verbally or nonverbally signal that they wanted him to approach.
- Looking and trying not to get caught
- Looking and trying to get caught
- Staring
- Getting into a guy’s proximity
- Bumping into him
- Inviting herself into his conversation
- Asking him a dumb question
- Asking him to go out.
This is just the sort of thing that Newbs want. They do not want to take risks, they want certainty. Their ego is at stake and it must be preserved at all costs.
And!! And as a guy gets better in his game, starts reading social signals, he’ll realize that he’s getting a lot more choosing signals than he realizes.
The Game is not for reaction, but for action. Being proactive and going after girls that the rookie likes, versus the girls that like him is what is going to get him to learn the ropes.
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This whole thing relies on looks. It’s not game at all.
Plus the answer is in the question – “choosing signals” – she’s choosing him. That’s the wrong way round.
Yep. I’m still stuck at this stage. Screening got me more lays than I’d ever had before… but did it get me the ones I wanted?