Got this cued up to my favorite part of this song…
- Baby, be mellow
- and be sweet
- forget about the diet, sit down and eat
- losing that weight you don’t
- because the more you got, the more I want…
But let the whole thing rock out. James had a whole lot of game. The very end, where he’s setting up the punch line….that’s how you run proper Black Man game…
This ain’t about James though. Two failed post in the two days.
On Sed Fast, there’s an old thread that’s tangentially about 10’s. But there’s an interesting point about some of the dissonance with the ten thing.
Let’s Get the Definition of a 10 out of the Way
I’m not gonna post those kinda pics on my site. But there are considered 10’s.
These are legit fashion models
Here’s another set of 10’s – The Victoria Secret Angel’s
If you’re here – with Archie – reading my stuff, your idea of a 10 is probably not in line with these “objective” 10s. If you’re the sort of person that dreams of flying off to Moldova and learning a slavic language to slay tall skinny girls….well….
But when guys talk about the game, they talk about how they feel, and that their game lacks when chatting up these “10’s”.
I have questions
- First of all, where they finding these objective 10 type chicks? But more importantly….
- Is it true/”deep in your balls” sort of attraction? Or is attraction that’s socially conditioned? Like when you see one of these cat eyed looking giraffes, are you thinking to yourself, “Man I want to put a baby in that womb now, I’ll worry about the consequences later..”
But those are pre-lim questions – talk amongst yoruselves.
What really got this whole thing sparked, (aside from being able to highlight one of my favorite James Brown moments in one of my fave James Brown songs) is the idea of
The more you got, the more I want.
Sometimes you come across a chick that is conventionally attractive, but she’s not quite the socially approved objective 10.
In our community, it might be a relative 10. Say a Beyonce or a Teyana Taylor (She’s in the latest Kanye video – Fade) or a Diane Guerrero (Orange is the New Black).
I’m kinda not talking about that chick either.
Sometimes you…”get a whiff” of a chick..and that scent goes straight to the reptile part of your brain. The part that controls fighting and hunger. Like you just want to the tear the chick out of the frame, full on animal lust.
You veterans know what I’m talking about. Like a man dying from thirst comes across an oasis, and drinks for hours.
My question is, when faced with something that hits you deep in your balls
Does your game get better?
That of course leads my mind to think of other things
- If that hunger drives my game to get good, how can I do things that will inspire it.
- How do I recognize that hunger? Have I been in that state of mind before, but didn’t know what it was, nor how to capitalize on it….
-Archie
Objective 10 chicks met in real life tend to be a mixture of that deep in the gut feeling that you mention coupled with a sociological response that you mention with the VS Angels. The man puts on the rose-colored glasses and to him that’s a 10.
There’s quite a few guys like that some even guys on the forum. They met their “10” so they project that feeling of a 10 they’re forced to believe on to it.
And on the concept of what’s objectively considered a 10 that’s always too damned subjective. Guys want those 10s not to bust a nut into but to status whore. Believe me been there done that. And when that true deep feelings hit, I’m not sure about everyone else, but that’s when the game hits overtime. Especially with not taking any shit. If a girl deviates from the dream she’ll get punished. It’s all about molding at the end of the day.
A girl you can’t mold is a wasted investment in my opinion. They are like water and take the shape of the container. Though it’s a 50/50 on the fait accompli. She could already be the kind of girl you wanted to turn her into.
All the best,
Comte De St. Germain