I’ve had a grip of LTR’s. Enough 3 day stands and Same Night Lays to honestly say that I’ve had success with this game thing. But the LTR’s stick with you. Going out and replacing a sex partner is as simple as going out regularly after a certain point. The more you enjoy the process, the easier it is.
But a chick that rises through the ranks from
- one time only
- okay, you can stay the weekend
- Once a week
- Secondary
- Primary
- OMG, Why am I accompanying you to your Christmas Party…
Somewhere between Secondary and Primary, you have to have noticed some non-sexual value. And most of the time it’s nothing so tangible as cooking, brings other girls into the mix for you, great with money, awesome connections.
No, its something far more nefarious. The chick is cool to be around. If you haven’t done this for a while, that sounds like a low bar. But the more chicks you deal with, the more you start to realize how teething pullingly agonizing dealing with these chicks are. So the one time you meet a chick that likes Wu Tang and Seinfeld
You start to feel “some type of way”. That companionship is not something a girl can truly fake her way through. She has to have that as a person. And it’s really a puzzle piece more so than some sort of trait that you can trace from chick to chick.
Anyway, I had this in one way or another with all of my exes. Some were better than others, but the game mentality allows you to find value in everyone, so you do.
So this particular Ex just recently had a kid. No we are no longer FB friends. But we do have FB friends in common. So there’s been a ton of gushing that I’m seeing proxy. (I actually don’t have the FB app on my telefono, but my work is dead boring some of the day – so perusing via browser)
I saw the pictures.
Broheim, the Ex looks exactly like her mother. And I don’t mean that in a good way.
If you’ve got a chick in secondary position, and you start getting the feelz… meet her mother.
Indeed, if a random chick or a plate wants a bump in rank, meet the friends. If she’s surrounded by some superficial cackling bitches, chances are high that she’s not even secondary material.
-Archie