The thing that new guys and old guys actually, don’t use enough – Subtext.
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A great way to maintain conflict when you’re dealing with a chick is to not seek to appease her.
If she asks for a drink, challenge her to get that chump over there to buy her one.
If she says she wants to go to a nice restaurant, take her to Chik-Fil-A…and get her a kids meal.
Subtext being…you run things. Not her.
I read somewhere the other day (cant remember where) that the need to be nice is an indicator of low value. If you were a valuable commodity you wouldnt need to be nice (aka not hurt peoples feelings, avoid conflic) in order to be accepted.
Probably why most young girls don’t “act nice” at first and most young guys are way too nice.
The subtext of acting like a fuccboii is that you have high value.
A great way to maintain conflict when you’re dealing with a chick is to not seek to appease her.
If she asks for a drink, challenge her to get that chump over there to buy her one.
If she says she wants to go to a nice restaurant, take her to Chik-Fil-A…and get her a kids meal.
Subtext being…you run things. Not her.
I read somewhere the other day (cant remember where) that the need to be nice is an indicator of low value. If you were a valuable commodity you wouldnt need to be nice (aka not hurt peoples feelings, avoid conflic) in order to be accepted.
Probably why most young girls don’t “act nice” at first and most young guys are way too nice.
The subtext of acting like a fuccboii is that you have high value.