When cats aren’t asking when the book is coming out, they’re asking me what to read.
- The Game by Neil Strauss
- Tyler’s Digest
- www.yareallyarchive.com
I’d probably toss the Mystery Method and Magic Bullets for an idea of old school, super technical game.
Personally?
I learned a ton from reading.
But I learned far more from going out 5+ nights a week.
What is hard to learn is that killer instinct.
You’ll get to the point where you know when it’s “on”. You’re getting the right sort of feedback. That’s not what I’m talking about.
There are a ton of chicks that either they don’t give you any indication, or the shit is so subtle you need a scanning tunneling microscope to see it.
So you have to take that leap of faith that you know it’s on and she’s with it.
That comes from experience to some extent, but largely it’s from within. The basic belief that you have that things will turn to your favor – despite her initial reluctance. Not that she’s going to give in – never that. But she’s going to be skeptical, then become an enthusiast.
The advice here – not so much the question – is to be bold and daring upfront and when you’re out and about. A lot of guys play meek and mild at the outset, and slowly seep into a chick’s world. She sorta kinda likes him/tolerates him – but things are in “her control”. She has certain expectations, and he’ll get a kiss (of her toe) when she’s good and ready.
https://youtu.be/WH5CmB44TaY
When you start learning the game – a big inner game key – is being okay with showing your own sexuality.
Guys are scared to let a chick know, “hey i think you’re sexy, let’s make like a ceviche and marinate”
But Archie, aren’t you into indirect game?
There’s that term again, Indirect Game. Indirect doesn’t mean beat around the bush. Indirect means that you hold off with your interest until she’s showing you her interest. So you engage with her, get the laughs and going, test her out – and see if you like her.
You can have a “direct” opener to start off your interaction. The problem is that it basically puts the girl on notice, and a lot of them like to shut down the interaction before it even starts
^But this can happen even if you’re not trying to flirt with her. Chicks be on some shit regardless of how you come at them.
So this is where I connect the title of this little essay.
You can’t learn how to handle a typical chick like above, strictly from reading books. Reading books – useful- needs to be in conjunction with going out. And when you go out, you need to push your own limits. Pushing past where you feel comfortable is what the killer instinct is about.