Realize that you’re in the Matrix, your life has been spent trying to live someone else’s dream, attain things that they want.
This is why you can’t get what you want, because the Matrix has rules built into it that stop you
Unplug from the matrix.
Start to deprogram yourself, and build yourself.
Recognize that game is real, it works, it can work for you.
Learn the techniques, the rules, and the rationale and theory behind the rule. Practice. Keep notes. Post your findings and experiences for others to interpret. Keep updating your skills.
As you external skills and technique get better, integrate that into the rest of your life. Bring your internals and externals up
Round out your game by examining those goals that society started with, and now you have the external and internal tools to get there.
If you framework this then Advanced Game is applying Game back to the society level.
For sure as you move up the stack, Game is a way to close deals, rake in cash, make friends, or take over the block and have your girls on every corner and cats posted slanging.
You’ll find the base skills at any level of social interaction.
The classic Game mindset advocates freedom. It’s probably the number one goal as far as the early cats go. Freedom from what was holding guys from bagging chicks was the first step but it quickly got on to freedom from other social conditioning baggage.
That’s the natural step once you start breaking down the rules of engagement and see how everyone gives a click response and follows them to a T. How do you get out of those basic mental models and reactions and move to something bigger?
Self-awareness and reflection of my own game. Thinking in terms of social rules that ultimately decry game and then realizing that I’ve been playing by the rules of someone else’s game.
For now my defense against the rules of this “Matrix” is just to straight up defy them. It is honest to go this “my way or the highway” method, but it lacks charm and tact.
Former friends expected me to act a certain way for so long, and were confused and angry when I decided that way was no longer for me.
I’m going to keep tabs on how I improve on this, as well as my game. I have been writing down and tracking progress ever since I read Nascimento’s advice on keeping a game notebook.
Keep up the blog.