I like to chop it up with the young guns learning the game.
When I got into this stuff, my mind set was that I needed some good material to kick to the ladies, and then I’d be off the races.
And when Roman Soul Gazing failed to hook them, I then figured out I needed to change my delivery. Then I needed to change my timing. Then my clothes. Then the venue. Then the targets…
As a veteran, I chuckle at that now.
Well I eventually got it. I had to learn the techniques, do the work, to understand that I was changing mentally.
The biggest change that guys make in the game is their mindset.
When the mindset changes, the actions change.
When the actions change, the reactions change.
When the actions and reactions are changing, the behavior and personality changes.
After he’s done all that, there’s a pink elephant in the room.
How does she think?
https://youtu.be/qbkS9IpWGf0
Now, it’s easy to write off this behavior as “young and uneducated”. Without playing the video, you can hear the gum smacking. With the neck tattoo, you kinda know what you’re in for.
So let’s throw a few zeros on the paycheck, a big job, and a few degrees.
This is the quote from above. (The woman in this show is actually based on a real life DC fixer)
I have never seen an episode of this show in my life, but any dude that’s been around the game already know how this plays out.
Professional Class Woman dates Professional Class Man. She could be one part of a power couple, or she could be a stay-at-home Mom.
But no.
He offers peace, but she wants chaos.
When the young player goes from green to seasoned, this is the next step in his evolution.
Yes, them’s the rules. Aside from family members, you don’t get carte blanche male protection from other men.
If we ain’t banging, you’re on your own. (and lest we forget the GF was banging the psycho in the FIRST PLACE – it’s probably the same aggressiveness that attracted her in the first place. Shorty wanna thug until he starts beating on her…I digress)
When you understand feminine psychology – she goes for bad boys and to a lesser extent tall guys, and to a lesser extent muscular guys – because she’s looking for a man that can protect her.
Any man that loses the beer belly gets points for being healthy.
But getting JACKED? Which means heavily muscled, visibly muscled, and average height or taller – she’s interested. Adding the bad boy elements, tats, beard, motorcycle/muscle car, devil may care attitude – that’s chick magnet.
She’s not interested in his thoughts on Kamala Harris’ political machinations.
She does not care about his feelings on the Covid.
She knows not to ask about his opinion on her interior decorating skills.
She wants to feel protected at one level, and at a deeper level – “the seed is strong”.
So her biology, her primal psychology, and her socialization all lead to the same dude.
I don’t begrudge a woman for that.
Men’s biology, primal psychology, and socialization lead to us wanting a lot of women, all fertile and nubile, and when that’s not available, morally flexible. (c) Moma.
Traditionally, there were reciprocal duties to said protection.
Like if she got a banging body, she’s not gonna invite attention to it, particularly in your presence. (because if she cares about you, she’s not trying to get you into a fight to protect her “honor”).
And this was the least of those duties. The very least.
Those days are long gone.
With the pill.
With education.
With good financial planning.
With government helping out when she can’t make ends meet…
She doesn’t need a man for his money, so she can focus on men that tickle her fancy. She can engage in pick and choose feminism.
So now what?
What are we engineers, computer scientists, bankers, accountants, consultants, etc to do?
Obviously we have many paths to achieve attractiveness. So that’s not a real issue.
Short guys, fat guys, the wrong skin color guys, have learned that whatever a woman says she wants, she rarely gets, and most of the time it’s the man’s personality – his effect on her emotions – that she hooks up with, has babies for, and sometimes marries.
She might as well send her list to Santa.
But do we step in when random chick is finna get hit up?
Dude is a great storyteller. There’s a lot of technical things you can draw from the presentation that you can modify and use in the real world on people you interact with.
But the TL DR for the first part.
Guy gets popular (youtube? music? I have no idea)
He smashes a lot of females
He gets sick
He can’t bang no more, but girls still want to come deal with him. Just be around him.
He realizes that the people in his life when he was healthy, he doesn’t really notice
He notices girls
In the past, bangs em, sleep over, kick em out
Now that he can’t bang, he doesn’t really want them there
But he relents because chicks are persistent
He starts to talk to these broads, why are you here? Why were you giving me the P?
The females say – I’m here because you don’t hit me.
This is one of those Andre3000 moments for him. A girl says something to him and he is hit with the reality of it.
The chicks – “You cuddle with me. You cook. You hold me. You listen to me…”
Other dudes hit me,….
Not so fast Speedy Gonzalez.
So getting back to the multiple levels of Game here
He ran his popularity game on the chicks to get them to come through.
They are running their sympathy/truth game.
And now he’s running his “narrative surprise” game on the audience.
We are supposed to feel something for these girls.
What the red pill teaches us AND what feminism teaches us, is that girls have AGENCY.
She can date and fuck whoever she wants.
That means she makes decisions to deal with certain dudes over other dudes.
If a guy was dealing with nothing but strippers, prostitutes, only fans chicks, and getting drained of his time, money, and effort – WHO’S FAULT IS THAT?
Are we supposed to feel sorry for the 70 year old pensioner who retires to the Philippines, marries a chick in her early 30’s, and then gets taken to the cleaners?
And then does it again at 80?
Accountability.
The rest of the video is actually pretty interesting as well, in that girls will deal with a lot of poor treatment to be with a guy that has “status”. He talks about how he was lead into a life of chasing females and building a notch count for status within his male group of peers. (the whole thing reeks of young men looking for social acceptance – which is something I understand, but have done without. Because as Cube said, “Who are they to be equal to?” Why do I want to join that group?…”
Back to the topic
So for the poor abused girl, she got the thug boyfriend she wanted. And then she upgraded to a YouTube star, that was arguably a good boyfriend except for the cheating. And they still want him, cheating and all.
What’s missing here?
Clearly these are the only choices for females. Aggressive, Abusive hoodlums, and the rich and famous.
But the average dude that isn’t thug or has a million social media followers?
Am I getting deeper into the space, or is the space growing?
Shout to my homie Quaker for putting me on.
Fresh and Fit are in the Young Guns category of the Manosphere (Shout out to Mediocre Tutorials and Reviews).
As KS says, F&F have been putting it on the wood, showing their work for sometime.
Andrew Tate, former kickboxer champion, has been living out loud for more than a few years now. I’m not trying to investigate the man’s finances or quibble about this and that – but he’s putting his own spin on the Gospel.
Really good interview and the two hosts let him shine.
Things like eating right, working out, getting a better job/money situation, learning verbal game, learning nonverbal/subcommunication game, growing a social circle, designing a better life – will take weeks, months, years, a lifetime.
As a quick note, there are 3 things most guys can do to become instantly more attractive in an afternoon. (This is the premise of a lot of makeover episodes on day time TV)
Buy clothes that fit
Get a good hair cut
Pick a good cologne
With that out of the way, I’ve been on my cologne game heavy in prepping for the return of normalcy. Normally I rock Tom Ford Noir Extreme, Versace Eau De Fraiche, and whatever the incense man has available. (I’m Black, sue me)
That said, this pandemic has had me at home, working a lot more than usual. But I’m back on my kettlebells, back with intermittent fasting, back with keto, back with meditation.
On my “fragrance journey”, I subscribed to a lot of fragrance youtubers. One of my favorite body oils is Tobacco Vanilla. Made me wonder, what else was out there.
It’s a whole new world. I actually ended up copping the actual Tom Ford TV. (On sale! But still expensive by most normal standards)
I’d say most of the guys that are into cologne/perfume/fragrance aren’t necessarily the most “alpha” of men. They’re normal guys, not stereotypes.
Except for this guy.
Jeremy Fragrance.
He’s tall, good looking, blonde, blue eyed?, German, has the cars, the clothes, the apartment, the look.
Austin Dunham, MJ Get Right, Fit X Fearless, and Steph is Cold.
Without a doubt, I think the “young guns” basically represent the “state of the art” or the “state of play” of Red Pill ideology and praxeology.
In short, they are exemplars of what a Red Pill man should look like, be like, think like, interact like….
In 2021, where the zeitgeist of the RP is essentially –
She’s not going to build anything with you.
She’s only going to show up at the finish line.
So what happens when you do actually build it? When you pour your effort into getting strong, having a good body, building your real world status, building your online status, learning all the photography tricks of the trade, figuring out the algorithms…
During the summer of 2018, Sulkowicz tells me, she was single for the first time in years. Swiping through Tinder, a man she found “distasteful” super-liked her. “It smelled like Connecticut,” she says of his profile. “He was very blond, law school, cut jawline, trapezoidal body figure, tweed suit kind of vibe, but something inside of me made me swipe right, I don’t know.” They began messaging, and she found him witty. “He was actually way more fun to talk to than any other person I matched with.”
Eventually, Sulkowicz stalked him on Twitter and realized that he was conservative — “like, very conservative.” At first, she was repulsed and considered breaking it off. But then she thought, “Wait, actually, that’s kind of fucked up because he’s the most interesting person I’ve come across, shouldn’t I be open to talking to him?” After dispelling her initial fear, she texted him that it would be “interesting (progressive? Powerful?) for two people who might be the antithesis of each other to go on a Tinder date.”
I was writing a long post about the YouTube Black Manosphere. I think there are some interesting and exciting things going on.
But I just deleted the bulk of it, because I’m realizing something many of you guys already know – guy only spaces are like girl only spaces – a lot of beef, name calling, sneak dissing, gossip etc.
So even though I think all of us do watch some of these Youtube celebs from time to time, catch some nuggets of wisdom – if you’re like me, it’s a lot of stuff to wade through to get to the jewels.
So the latest bit of beef is this.
The Saint and The Sinner (book review coming as soon as I finish reading it) – as background, I believe the brother is from Cali. Has a pimping background, but also went to great schools and has run tech companies. I’ll take the man at his word about his bonafides and I judge his content more than his resume. Overall, I like his content. I disagree here and there, but I never expect to agree with someone 100%, nor do I expect someone to agree with me.
The Spark
Saint is at the Copacabana Beach in Rio and is not impressed by the quality of women there.
Okay, although I can see a nice one in the thumbnail, my time in Brazil showed me that the whole country doesn’t look like a Rap Video. The idea that a place is not crawling with 8’s, 9’s, and 10’s should not be surprising to anyone. In fact, rampant obesity should not be a shocker either, it’s world wide. When you fat people in Saigon, that should tell you something. But the USA takes the cake in the fat-Olympics in my opinion.
His comment section agrees with him. It was a one off video for laughs.
But that’s not how this will play out.
So my man 1 Master Teacher, a Brazil veteran, is disagreeing with Saint.
Okay, if you’ve seen 1MT’s work around the globe, he’s a true passport player.
Again, it’s not secret that a Black man handling his business, can network before he goes and connect with some nice locals, and sometimes just parachute into a country and make it happen. Young dude, in decent shape, got money to spend? A brother does not need to resort to pay for play. Tinder dates via Google Translate is the norm. A lot of people do not want Black men to realize that as a brand, we are a pretty attractive lot. Women, the world over, like us as a group for romantic and physical activities.
If paying $20 bucks for a 3 course dinner in Fortaleza is “simping” to a lot of dudes – we just aren’t in the same tax bracket. I regularly go on dinner dates with women. I don’t see that as tricking. A lot of guys do. *shrugs*
That said, the disagreement here is about the content, not about the person.
Two brothers can disagree. The disagreement can be heated, but at the end of the day, we can agree to disagree.
But 1MT wasn’t the only reaction.
Enter Oshay Duke Jackson.
Him and my man Obsidian are basically the backbone of the Black Youtube Manosphere. They took it upon themselves to somewhat organize what’s generally considered a crazy realm.
The players in the Black Manosphere/Black Youtube aimed at men.
Pimps – Sinful the P, Freeze Iz It
Old School Dating Coaches from the PUA Era – Mr. Locario
Black Red Pill Guys – AlphaMale Strategies, StephisCold
Black Passport – Ace is Live
Black Guys in the Red Pill Space – Greg Adams
Dating Coaches – Too many to name, but i’ll come up with a list
Women trying to make a few dollars in the space
Brothers in the Tech Space
Brothers in the Finance/Money Space
Black PUAs – who are largely not integrated with the sphere…but could be
I’m not trying to link all these guys to Oshay, but he’s featured a good number of them, and is featured with a lot of them. He will showcase people he doesn’t agree with and have a discussion. And those folks get followers from his base. Cross-pollination helps everyone in the space, as the rest of Youtube figured out a decade ago.
Remember this classic joint?
That said, Oshay definitely is not above a bit of roasting. I’ve definitely had my fair share of chuckles and headshakes at his material.
Oshay Points the Cannon at Saint
Note the title of the video is to take advantage of the Youtube Algorithm, as Saint Kevin Samuels is really preaching the gospel to Black Women, 3 nights a week, with clips from different platforms. The most professional YouTuber in the space.
https://youtu.be/Lp0e_ok52f0
So Saint is talking about Brazilian chicks not being all that. Fair enough. We can agree to disagree.
But who’s shooting the video?
Oshay shows hidden camera footage of Saint’s assistant and has some commentary about her. Let’s just say this was not very kind on Oshay’s part.
I’m unclear about who the young lady is, what their relationship is, and I’m not trying to find out. That’s not my business.
But *shots fired*.
Saint and the Sinner Responds
https://youtu.be/o9TZWTBVhB0
The proper roasting starts at 51:45
Saint does some internet research and presents that to his audience. Saint is out for blood. Needless to say, when government names come up, the conflict has escalated. I won’t repeat said allegations, you can watch the video or read the comment section like I tend to do.
The War Continues
The title is “Dusty Liars, Clout Chasers, Doxxers, And False Allegations”
This is a live broadcast and may or may not be available later.
https://youtu.be/xcAluzLf38Q
This one should stay up.
https://youtu.be/E-b2uxx1cCg
While all of this is happening, Pro-Oshay followers and Pro-Saint Followers are clashing in these internet streets.
So what’s the lesson here?
The Black Man Youtube-Sphere is still gelling. There are new and veteran content creators all vying for eyeballs. And in that race for dollars….
Dollars?
99 Real dollars are being spent in the Chat. (twice) (And the dude putting up them dollars, DOESN’T LIKE OSHAY). He’s getting haters to pay him 200 bucks.
