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“I was having a similar discussion with a guy I’m talking to.. He’s been bombarding me with gifts and attention and we talk a lot. I haven’t hung out with him yet due to the quarantine. I don’t know if he is worth my trouble even with everything he is doing for me. I’ve had so many bad experiences that my guard is extremely high. So I expressed it to him in a nicer way.

A Chump?  He’s pissed off by this.  “How dare this effing…”

But the player recognizes the game.

Here’s how player responded.

To which he made an interesting point: “Vulnerability is not a weakness, it’s a strength. Strength that shows you are not scared to expose your feelings and emotions.”

I thought about it. I sorta agree. You give up some of your power in order to become vulnerable. The outcome maybe better than what you had before or it may end in a heartbreak. The question is: WHO is the person you are willing to risk for. Not a lot of people are worth it “