Furious Anger

What’s the proper way to leverage anger and aggression in game?

Basically chicks expect you to be certain ways/have certain behaviors along the time line

1. when you show up
2. when you walk up
3. your first words
4. your reaction to her reaction
5. your reaction to her testing you
6. your reaction to her submission
7. your reaction to last minute/token resistance
8. what happens during sex
9. what happens after sex

10. during the relationship

Option A – 80% of guys
The guy who doesn’t know a thing about game, and gets all his lessons from Mom and Dad, Religion, his know nothing friends, music, and Hollywood
– wants to be totally cool (nothing phases me man)
– in actuality, the second he doesn’t get what he wants – he gets mad, shuts down, gets angry, starts becoming unstable

^This dude is very predictable.

Option B – 15% of guys
The guy who is game aware – who at least realizes that his behavior and her psychology are a factor in attracting her
– wants to be totally cool
– controls his reaction, so that he’s basically a cold hearted

^She keeps trying to get a rise out of him – to check his alpha, to check her womanhood, because she’s bored….

There are times when you can’t be ice cold with a chick, not if you want to keep her.

Option C – the 4% – the 1 in 25 – the guy who understands that his behavior/emotions is the real factor in getting a chick on the hook, and keeping her on the hook

This includes your dark triad approach of intermittent/random shows of emotion – guys who do it intentionally to make the girl think that He’s in to her “like that”
And also guys who see that a chick wants a fight, and then goes for the god damn jugular, giving her the roller coaster, and then blaming her for it – if it turns against him.

Option D – the 1%

These are your poets, singers, musicians, artists – who live emotional lives – that chicks get swept up in.
There’s nothing calculated about these guys, his whole life is a roller coaster – and she gets swept up in it, trying to save him.

He’s more emotional than her bipolar ass.

So going back to the time line.

1. when you show up (to the venue, in her life, in her vantage point) – showing good emotions to other people is generally good – IF they react positively to your emotions.  You gotta win a frame battle with a 3rd party to make this broad impressed.  The only time anger works here is if somebody punks you, and you gotta come back at them.  And to be honest, I’ve never seen the Hollywood scenario where dude gets into something with another dude, and a chick is impressed with his alpha.
And trust me, I’ve seen plenty of club fights.

2. When you walk up –  You can’t be angry, but smiling can work against you

3. your first words – this is where she expects you to be shiny and happy, and not being exactly what she expects can help.
To illustrate, you can be happy one second, walk up to the broad, and then
put your face on that says “This bitch here”
Then you say, “Man, what am I gonna do with you”

It’s not anger, but it’s an invitation to play a bit, because she doesn’t know exactly when the punchline is gonna come.

4. your reaction to her reaction – if she’s not feeling you that second, and you react angrily – you lose here.

You literally have to be unreactive, as if she said nothing.

5. your reaction to her testing you

Some of the time, a chick is consciously fucking with you.
Most of the time, her words and behavior are entirely intentional, but she’s not intending to fuck with you.
It’s just from a male perspective, it seems like she IS trying to fuck with you.

When a chick is trying to fuck with you – that’s a frame battle.

When a chick wants to sit down – and you interpret that as a diss – but in reality it’s because her feet hurt –

You getting angry, butt hurt, pouting about whatever – changes the second-to-second dynamic.

6. your reaction to her submission

After you go back and forth, and she lets up on her banter.
You still need some compliance/submission.

You have to recognize it it when she gives it to you.

Anger isn’t called for here.
And sometimes a slight push (a neg perhaps), after she’s bought in – hurts you.

7. your reaction to last minute/token resistance

Non-reactive, everything is cool, no means not just yet….

Anger here will get you caught up.  Lose the bang, and might end up in jail.

8. what happens during sex

I’m not saying you need to cause vaginal trauma or anything like that – but a lot of chicks act like bitches so that you can fuck them HARD.

9. what happens after sex

You’ll lose subsequent bangs by showing anger here

10. The Relationship

This is where you need to be able to assert yourself.
And adding anger or some other emotional layer to your actions and subcommunications is helpful.

WIA