Dime Piece

UPDATED 1/9/2017

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The “dime piece” discussion is strictly about looks (face and body) and
1) How hard it is to find them
2) Needing some super jedi mind tricks to pull this unicorn of a bitch.

Trust me, if they fuck me, they’ll fuck you.

#1 is a legit question
#2 is some bullshit.

But it goes back to how guys pull 7’s in the first place.

If you’re just sniping tipsy chicks as the leave the club, or dancing with a chick all night and just staying on the bitch and being persistent – (both valid strategies) – but it’s straight up you pursuing her.

Usually your passive value as a black man, that works out, dresses well, has a few dollars in his pocket (not a whole lot, but enough) – the snipe moves or the persistence or the spam approaches – is gonna get you a whole lot of pussy.  And if you’re in it for the bangs – just on volume you’re going to fuck 9’s and 10’s.

Volume, tho.

I basically promote a hybrid of those 3.

• Spam the crowd with light game, meet everyone.
• Figure out who has some natural attraction and the best logistics (snipe).
• And then just stay on the broad until it’s time to break out.

Easy Peasy.

Get to the club @ 11, make your rounds, by 12:30 you know which chicks were feeling you just off of being social.  Pick the right one, and you’re getting your dick sucked in your grandmother’s basement.

With an average dude trying to scope a 10 – the real problem is that of proximity.  Either these high end bitches are nowhere to be found, or they’re roped off in VIP.  What’s a regular guy to do?

Now if you’re an exceptionally good looking dude, tall, muscles, dressed – etc – any of the 3 main ways guys gain entry into the upper levels, or a combination/hybrid of the main 3 – and you’ll get the really hot chicks – because this is the guy that they typically go out with.

He’s social, good looking, tall, has muscles, and has money.

He’s the thing that society has sold her on.   So if that dude sees Beyonce coming out the lady’s room – she’s at least open to the idea of meeting him.  Who else does she dream about at night?

But that’s more “macking” and less pimping.
If pussy wasn’t involved, you’d call that sort of thing hustling.
That’s cold calling.
That’s outside sales. (not inside sales)

One thing I ask myself when I’m dealing with a chick.

Am I running GAME ?

Are you running game when you’ve made yourself into visual perfection?

That’s the question you should be asking yourself.

What does that even mean?..

The reality of the game is that most guys can stay knee deep in pussy, just talking to bitches, and taking the limits off of their personalities.  I think the professional teachers say that “You are enough”.

It’s very close to “Just Be Yourself”

“Just Be Yourself” is actually good advice – except for the fact that most guys do not know
1) Who they really are,
2) What they really want,
3) How to be themselves around people that are strangers/hostiles/potential mates.

The solution to JBY?

• Go out enough,
• Desensitize yourself to new people
• Acclimate yourself to new environments

And boom – you’re getting chicks just off of who you are, because you’re no longer afraid to express it, and know how to put your best foot forward.

The pretty boy that’s social?  He gets the 10’s just doing this.

A regular dude?  He might be slaying bitches left and right, but let Halle Berry walk in – and he can’t talk – he can’t be himself.

The 10 intimidates a regular guy.  So he either clams up, or turns into Mr. Smooth Player and puts on an act.  Now, I’m not going to say she sees right through you.  I don’t believe that girls have super powers.  But when you can’t be yourself, your body language is off – and that is visible to anyone.

How does a man get used to 10’s

Maybe he is a pharma rep, and is used to working with hotties – or a bartender?

In those types of situations – a guy normalizes beauty and it no longer intimidates – well that guy can be himself – and at least he has a shot with the chick.

He can step to her and be real.

Still, none of that is GAME.

That’s just normal “guys socializing with girls”.  It’s especially normal to girls – because the only kind of guy that she regularly interacts with – are guys that are able to express themselves.   Guys who can’t are INVISIBLE.

So just getting social – which basic game teaches you – is usually what sky rockets a guy from chilling at home, to chilling with bitches.

Arguably, that’s one of the things black dudes have coming in to the game, that others typically don’t have.

In general, our culture is full of a bunch of people who talk shit incessantly, are defiant, don’t follow (white) social norms, will get it popping quick.  Those 10-20% of folks define the 80-90% of us who just want make a few dollars and go home.

African, Caribbean, Black North American…that’s the stereotype.  And all of us know guys like that, if that’s not who we are individually.  (I’ve become that guy and turn it on or off as I see fit) I’d throw in my Latino and Middle Eastern folks as well.   I know a few other folks in other demographics that “take life by the bull horns” – and those guys are all players.

I’m digressing.

Back to the 10’s.

So you don’t see these chicks often.
When you do see them, you’re intimidated.

But assuming you’ve been going out a while – you’re not as intimidated as a guy just getting his feet wet- So you step to the broad and run the basic “show them your personality” type game.  Spam, Snipe, Persist – whatever.

But any chick can take it or leave it.
Any chick.
The 2 or the 11.
Any chick.

Nobody ever talks about getting shot down by a 6.  Much less a 5 face with a phat ass. (I have, I been burned six ways to Sunday.  It’s why i’m telling you guys to avoid the narrow paths)

So now that you’ve presented yourself, tried to sell her something – she can choose to buy or not.

She’s the buyer.  She remains the buyer.

You may have raised your stock, your worth, your “value” (ugh) – but she’s buying.  She’s not in any rush to make a decision.

So guys that say they never pull the 10’s – chances are that they strike out with a fair amount of 4’s-7’s as well.

That’s not a knock to his game – just recognizing that if he only pulls 1 in 5 of the 7’s he raps to – that 10 is one of the 4, that he didn’t pull.

Sometimes a chick just doesn’t like your look, like your pitch.
She says no, and you move on.

So when a 7 rejects your offer, she’s rejecting you as a buyer.
If you can get next to a 10, she has the same female behavior.

They are not different.   A 5 that shows a lot of cleavage can get out of a traffic ticket just like a 10 can.  You got grandmas well past their prime manipulating people to get what they want.

It’s really not that deep.

The 10 rejection is the same as the tall chick with the weave and nice ass.  It just feels worse.

But the Lite Brite chick and the 10 are rejecting you on the same basis.  She’s the buyer, you’re the seller.  You don’t meet her buying criteria.

Game is about being the buyer.

There are guys that fuck a lot.  Running up on chicks @ Trader Joe’s and talking about melons.  Taking trips to Uganda and running subtle Green Card game.  Jocks and famous dudes.

And THEN there are guys that are good with women.

There’s a difference.

Do guys understand how women operate?
They don’t need feminism to get what they want.

So to pull the 10 – you have to operate like her.
You have to think like her.
You have to get in her mind.

That’s what a guy that’s good with women does.  When you see a cat like that, take note.

What does she notice?
How does she behave?
What does she really want?
What really gets her going?
When does she make herself vulnerable?

When is she the seller?

Once you start thinking like that, – How do I put myself in a position that 10’s want to fuck with me, that she sees me as more than just furniture?

That’s when you change.

Who do these genetic freaks and make up masters fuck?
1. Guys in their social circles

2. High value strangers (celebs, sheikhs from Dubai)

and

3. Players.

So the steps …..

Step 0

So the baseline of your game is the “look your best, get your dollars up, dress well, talk to a lot of bitches, get comfortable in doing so, have some shit to say that shows off your personality”

Step 1

To find these 10’s – you gotta start working your network – trying to find out – who knows who, where the after party is, how does the dj put on his list, the promoters, the local celebs.

Because these high value chicks want to fuck with other high value people.

You got to get next to them.

Step 2

Is now that you know she’s gonna be at these clubs – and you’re looking your best – if you find yourself next to her, or in a group conversation – is there anything you can say, not say, do, or not do – to make that connection?

Wait, do you know how to do that?

When you were fucking 6’s and 7’s, had you been working groups, going into deep conversations, getting folks to share their vulnerabilities with you, holding court, teasing?

No?

Well that’s the skill set you need in this environment.  You don’t need to be just funny or “irreverent” – you need to hold attention and direct the action of the group.

All the shit you should have been doing with 5-7’s groups, that you don’t have to because you can just get by on “show my true colors” game.

When the 7’s see you run shit in HER social circle – she wants you.  Most chicks respond to status, power, social momentum, to getting attention from said dude( or not getting it)

Wait, who is this guy?  Why am I not getting Keisha’s attention?  Why is Jareem listening to this guy?  Okay why is he not paying attention to me? 

The roles have flipped – and you’re the buyer.

That’s game.

You’re getting this chick in a group of her friends to follow you, and then want to hear more from you.  And then you get her to crave.  You get her friends involved, egging her on.   And she loves that shit – she’s finally alive – finally not more interested in her phone.

Suddenly that 7 is trying to sell you on why you should be together.  She’s seeking your approval, but you’re taking away your validation and giving it to other girls.

That’s what we’re after – that sort of

“Look at me, pay attention to me…i’ll do anything to be in the spotlight”

That’s how you pull 10’s.  Because that’s how you PULL 7’s.  The psychology is no different, and arguably – given that most 10’s are artificially made up – the attention/validation/cycle is MORE effective on these chicks.

Most guys aren’t running game on 7’s, so they can’t run game on 10’s.

-Archie