Fuck it. It’s my site, I’ll write whatever I want to.
Over at the forum, them boys talking about the pointlessness of routines.
I beg to differ.
I’ll totally agree that a routine like the Cube is overkill for just getting a chick in bed.
But stuff like the Cube, 3 Animals, Strawberry Fields – it’s more than just ego stroking for the player.
Part of the game is giving the chick the “feels”.
More than just making her feel like she wants to fuck, but mad, angry, happy, laughing, she wants to pee, sad, confused, tension relieved, etc
The reason you do this is that if she’s wearing a sheer top, and she catches a draft of hot air, her nipples harden. That causes a biological response in her that leads towards sex. So she has to self-regulate.
She’s very good at self regulation, when there’s only *one* thing coming at her. One thing that she can recognize and understand.
Magicians and Comedians like to throw all these things at the audience – because it weakens their defenses. Getting stimulated from all different directions – girls go out to loud, dark, smoky, dance clubs for THAT REASON.
It’s not just the punchline, it’s the set up, the pledge, it’s the mannerisms, the pauses. They not only deepen the effect of the punchline, but the effect can stay with you for years.
When you strip down routines to the core, a lot of them operate the same way.
But without the salient details, you get sub-optimal results. Maybe not sub-optimal, you get different results. It’s ordering the first thing on the menu without turning the page. It’s dumping a bottle of hot sauce
Let’s say you do the palm reading shit as a joke, and it’s really an excuse for compliance and kino.
Cool, no problem. She’s attracted, touch barrier is broken, play the comfort game well, handle the uber, and you’re fucking.
Let’s say you do the palm reading stuff seriously, and you do the life line, love line, # of partners….
All shit she’s probably heard before…but say you “notice” something “peculiar”, and then immediately clam up.
You try and change the subject to whether Khloe Kardashian is meant to be single.
“Wait a minute, what did you see…”
Her interest in you, her willingness to comply has shot through the roof.
What was funny ha ha, is no longer a joke.
You’re not going to get that with half-assing the routine.
You’re certainly not going to get that by just doing the “routine” outline.
If you’re just looking for some fun that night, you don’t need all the technique and nuance.
But the whole point of 7 hours, elaborate routines, feather boas was not just to put your dick in a chick.
It was to capture her.
Even on the PUA boards that have guys that were there to see all of this happen – they don’t think like this anymore.
It’s all about minimum effective doses, the least game possible, EFFICIENCY, minimalism, low to no effort.
To be honest, it’s weird to me that game has devolved. It should have evolved. It should have gotten more ornate, more baroque.
But maybe that’s why the peacock isn’t running the planet. All those details are no match for efficient killers.
To switch gears with a metaphor
I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase, “Information wants to be free” – which is used as a justification for piracy. This music can’t be contained by your stupid copyright laws
But it was taken from this statement.
“It seems like there’s a couple of interesting paradoxes we’re working with here. That’s why I’m especially interested in what Bob Wallace has done with PC-WRITE and what Andrew Flugelman did before that with PC-TALK. On the one hand information wants to be expensive, because it’s so valuable. The right information in the right place just changes your life. On the other hand, information wants to be free, because the cost of getting it out is getting lower and lower all the time.“
How the phrase is used now, is a shortened and entirely different way than it was used before. They don’t mean the same things.
The meme is a de-evolution of the original. It’s not even clear that people would understand this debate about information in 2016.
Stripping down old school pua/nlp/speed seduction/magician/comedian game into the moving parts – basically doesn’t get at what is possible.
What if you were thinking deeply about your game – and any chick you banged – you wanted her to bang you strictly for the sex.
Not just be her Fuck Buddy – but she’s penciling you in her calendar, dieting, exercising, doing kegels, working on her gag reflex at work – because she’s now approaching having sex with you like it was some grand undertaking. Where she’s putting off important shit, because she’s got to finish working on her Wonder Woman costume for your planned activities on Friday night.
Or you when you meet her, you have you, her, and her girlfriend doing triple kisses – and that lights a fire in her mind. And then you go into some personality quiz about the “sexual fluidity”.
It’s not even really about the routines. It’s about thinking about possibilities, and making them into realities.
-Archie
Now this article was good.
“To be honest, it’s weird to me that game has devolved. It should have evolved. It should have gotten more ornate, more baroque”
I know I haven’t put in anywhere near the hours as the great WIA, but I feel like in some ways it has and in others it hasn’t. Kind of like how we have all this technology and use it to both cure diseases and find new ways to make porn more interactive.
It did go from go up and “say this”, to “it doesn’t really matter what you say”.
Plus, with a lot of the red pill stuff out there I think guys are thinking to themselves, what’s the point? What’s in it for me to capture her? Now add in the fact everyone wants to minimize pain and maximize pleasure and it makes sense why every couple weeks someone asks where the best LMR busting techniques can be found.
Not realizing the mistake could have been a quick fix two hours earlier when you still had her by the hand.