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Archie – I was at a club, talking to a chica, and I think I was getting somewhere. Then a guy out of the blue came up and grabbed the chick to go dance with him? What gives? Was it you? She even gave him her number!
Haha.
Not me, but he had a lot of balls to do that.
But that whole “I’m gonna steal your girl right in front of you” mentality is one of the darker sides of the game. Rappers of the last 16 years are always yakking about I’m gonna fuck *your* girl, even though there are tons of attractive single young ladies out there
Let’s get down to the analysis.
Failure to Lock In
In hindsight, it means that you were moving too slow, and he recognized that on some level. The proper move for a situation when you’re chatting a chick up is to LOCK IN.
The idea is that if you’re chatting up a girl, use the social momentum to move her into a position where it looks like SHE’S chatting you up.
So if a girl is leaning up against the bar, one of the moves has been to “read her palm”, and then pull her out of the bar, and move into her spot – so that she’s standing up and leaning in to you.
That’s the general practice.
It sounds like you were “Out in the Open”. Like from all angles, she could be “gorilla’d” and you’re standing there looking like Steve Urkel.
So the better move is to MOVE HER OUT OF THE ZONE OF DANGER. So away from the dance floor, towards the bar, out for a smoke…
The guy was basically able to move her from a low energy/stimulation of chatting, into higher sexual energy situation of dancing – in a place where that was the purpose.
Fortune favored the bold
What to make of the guy?
Since he took a phone number, his game was ultimately weak. Chances are low that the subsequent text is going to convey the same level of alpha.
Why? In a high stimulation environment – the girl is getting all the good feelings and good vibes.
Next day? “Who is this fool texting me?”
My Personal Experience
I’ve always been of slight build, even when I’m chubby. That’s happened to me a few times. But then my dance game went up, and after that my sense to get her out of the venue increased.
So now, if I’m rapping to a chick, and she either is feeling me from jump or gets into the validation cycle (sometimes you can’t tell) – I EXTRACT
-Archie