A Change Gone Come

In light of recent events, this blog will definitely shift focus.  I’m not going away from the game, far from it.  A change in regime means I actually need to fully invest in all forms of game.

I primarily talk about the following

• The Player’s Mindset
• The Lady’s Mindset
• Social Context
• One on One Game
• Group Game
• Night Game
• Cold Approach
• LTR Management

What I neglect, because it’s not my area of expertise or general experience

• Social Circle Game – specifically meeting people and building a social circle
• Raw Day Game – that insane run up on a chick game, or hang out in a coffee shop and hit on patrons.
• Lifestyle “Game” – the quotes should tip you off, I don’t put much stock in lifestyle as “game”.  At least not the rich playboy type of game that people think of.
• Internet Game – Using marketing techniques and a funnel to get dates, and then using one on one game during the date to build trust.
• Game outside of Romantic Contexts – We’ll get into this, as I plan on breaking down historical leaders.  There’s an interplay between you making a girl feel the roller coaster – and everyone else watching.  The chick in the sideline who’s rolling her eyes at you, changes her tune when some other girls really start to feel you.  Basically you don’t convince the skeptic – you find the true believers – and they convince your skeptic through sexual preselection and social proof.
• World Game

It’s this last one that I’ve been attempting to get a handle on this year.  But my day time commitments as a Intellect-For-Hire have kept me out of the World Game like I need to be.

So one of the homies asked me on the forum about how to break out for the girls that are kinda cute (he calls them 6’s) and into the 7’s and above.

Well you know just on that scenario, there’s a whole lot of things to break down…If he were talking about the North American context, and by extension the Anglosphere.   You can extend a lot of Game developed in Canada, LA, DC, Vegas, and NYC to the Australia, New Zealand, England, et cetera – because all the cultures basically draw from the same well in terms of “romance”.   There’s a huge cultural component of game that most American players deal with.

Now if you’ve been doing this as long as I have, and have stayed in touch with the “community” more or less – one of the things that everyone has noticed was that travel makes  your game better.

Having to connect with a woman who doesn’t speak your tongue or know to get you the Kola Champagne and not the Pineapple Soda is a challenge that most guys don’t really know how to handle.

Indeed, if you read the traveling players, a lot of them are getting over on 2 things

• Exotic Factor
• Western (i.e. rich) factor

Very brute force game.  And I prefer finesse.  But finesse in American game depends on you understanding social context, social cues, and how things are done.  What rules can be broken, must be followed, and can be done away with.

What World Game can teach you

• These broads are mostly the same.  They all want everything, even if everything isn’t good for them.
• Overall female behavioral cues

It’s this second one that makes your game better at home.  This latest generation of international players, have the money to go abroad, bang chicks with inelegant approaches, and then they have to come home and deal with culturally savvy chicks who see that these men aren’t even trying to learn the ropes.    The players of old came back from Mongolia with much better eye contact, noticing more of when a chick was responding by body language, how to close distance, and how to really build trust at the most basic level.

Whatever inelegant game the “old school pua’s” had in a foreign context, they learned to strip down and strip out cultural assumptions and get to the core.

Why is this important?  Why were they able to?  What does night game have to do with this?

Night game comes in 2 basic flavors.  Mostly Verbal and Mostly-Non-Verbal.  If you’re at a bar, even a loud bar, you can shout your way into a good situation.  If you’re at a concert or a mega-night club, the entire club is designed to overwhelm your senses.   You’re supposed to embrace the madness.  It’s essentially an orgy/a mob/a controlled riot.

That sort of thing is where good old American Night Club game intersects with World Game.

Back to other posts – this game “thingy” is about giving her feels.  And that’s true in every context.  What World Game can teach a player is how to focus on the sub-communications and the non-verbal game to give the girls feels.   And World Game has to be done in the context outside of being overwhelmed.

So that means my efforts to learn portable skills, which I got some decent mileage out of this year – go to the front burner.

It’s time to get out there.

-Archie