I like to chop it up with the young guns learning the game.
When I got into this stuff, my mind set was that I needed some good material to kick to the ladies, and then I’d be off the races.
And when Roman Soul Gazing failed to hook them, I then figured out I needed to change my delivery. Then I needed to change my timing. Then my clothes. Then the venue. Then the targets…
As a veteran, I chuckle at that now.
Well I eventually got it. I had to learn the techniques, do the work, to understand that I was changing mentally.
The biggest change that guys make in the game is their mindset.
When the mindset changes, the actions change.
When the actions change, the reactions change.
When the actions and reactions are changing, the behavior and personality changes.
After he’s done all that, there’s a pink elephant in the room.
How does she think?
https://youtu.be/qbkS9IpWGf0
Now, it’s easy to write off this behavior as “young and uneducated”. Without playing the video, you can hear the gum smacking. With the neck tattoo, you kinda know what you’re in for.
So let’s throw a few zeros on the paycheck, a big job, and a few degrees.
This is the quote from above. (The woman in this show is actually based on a real life DC fixer)
I have never seen an episode of this show in my life, but any dude that’s been around the game already know how this plays out.
Professional Class Woman dates Professional Class Man. She could be one part of a power couple, or she could be a stay-at-home Mom.
But no.
He offers peace, but she wants chaos.
When the young player goes from green to seasoned, this is the next step in his evolution.
Now that I can attract? What do I throw back?
WIA
Might be a bit mouth breather of me but the idea that I have to manufacture excitement by being toxic saddens me because I’m debasing myself for the buns.
So who am I really playing…her or myself?
I’ve said this before, if the chick is looking for toxic, I look for the door.