Month: July 2021

Seduction, Pick Up, The Game, etc – all have had very tortured relationships with pornography.

Back in the day, there was quite a debate about whether to “take care” of yourself before going out to sarge.

In the late 90’s/early 00’s – Dudes that were young, dumb, and full of potential – the testosterone surging through their very beings meant that a quick session would take the edge off and make “sarging” more effective because the edge was taken off.  Dudes were not so thirsty.

The other side argued that by focusing one’s sexual energy into the entirety of the pick up, but keeping it under control – that energy could be harnessed for more effective pickups.

There was no easy answer to this question, and it ended up being up to the individual, and that ended up to be case by case, day by day.

Keep in mind, this debate was at the start of internet porn being freely available. Most Gen X guys and older did not grow up with a virtual harem in their pockets.  Moreover, the female “arms” race to modify her visage and attract more attention did not go into hyperspace like it has now.

20 years later, things have changed.

Not only has internet pornography damaged a new generation of guys, it’s also enticed a lot of women into easy money. She just needs a webcam and an OnlyFans account to make “thousands” – (In reality, that’s just not the case. She’s putting her pics and videos out there for pennies, only to have those things resurface later in life.  But we wont judge)

So a tale of regret as commented on by Mediocre Tutorials and Review

The “star” in question is Kinsley Karter.  I am familiar with her work, though not a fan.  She confesses to being a pornstar as well as a sugar baby.

But what happens when these chicks decide to truly cash in on their looks and be trophy wives.

Well there’s this

Aba (the Ethiopian dude) and Preach (The Haitian Dude) weigh on her advice.

But what happens when these pornstars try to actually get married?

Oshay Duke Jackson breaks down this situation.

What are we to take away from this?

I think the Red Pill answer is obvious.

• • • Pornography is bad for boys, teens, and men.
    • Pornography is bad for girls, teens, and women.

But what about players?

The veteran player has absorbed the red pill, and is well past the anger and finger pointing stage.

There are no unicorns, and plenty of women are out there doing their thing but not broadcasting it.

Unlike today

And just to throw another one in there – infamous, now on Spotify – “respectable young ladies’ – who’ve gotten fame and money via their exploits…

It would be funny if it weren’t so tragic.

The RP/Trad Con is clutching his pearls.

The young player is sowing his oats.

But as a veteran, all I can do is shake my head.

– Archie

I like to chop it up with the young guns learning the game.

When I got into this stuff, my mind set was that I needed some good material to kick to the ladies, and then I’d be off the races.

And when Roman Soul Gazing failed to hook them, I then figured out I needed to change my delivery.  Then I needed to change my timing. Then my clothes.  Then the venue.  Then the targets…

As a veteran, I chuckle at that now.

Well I eventually got it.  I had to learn the techniques, do the work, to understand that I was changing mentally.

The biggest change that guys make in the game is their mindset.

When the mindset changes, the actions change.

When the actions change, the reactions change.

When the actions and reactions are changing, the behavior and personality changes.

After he’s done all that, there’s a pink elephant in the room.

How does she think?

https://youtu.be/qbkS9IpWGf0

Now, it’s easy to write off this behavior as “young and uneducated”.  Without playing the video, you can hear the gum smacking.  With the neck tattoo, you kinda know what you’re in for.

So let’s throw a few zeros on the paycheck, a big job, and a few degrees.

This is the quote from above.  (The woman in this show is actually based on a real life DC fixer)

I have never seen an episode of this show in my life, but any dude that’s been around the game already know how this plays out.

Professional Class Woman dates Professional Class Man.  She could be one part of a power couple, or she could be a stay-at-home Mom.

But no.

He offers peace, but she wants chaos.

When the young player goes from green to seasoned, this is the next step in his evolution.

Now that I can attract?  What do I throw back?

WIA

Alright fellas, I’m giving into the dark side.

So this is the post from FDS – literally the best subreddit to understand women.

White knight gets mollywhopped by exboyfriend.

Dude in the comment section says, the orbiter prolly got friend zoned.

Difference between a great man and a garbage
byu/Rememberthekant inFemaleDatingStrategy

And this is the comment.

Yes, them’s the rules.  Aside from family members, you don’t get carte blanche male protection from other men.

If we ain’t banging, you’re on your own.  (and lest we forget the GF was banging the psycho in the FIRST PLACE – it’s probably the same aggressiveness that attracted her in the first place.  Shorty wanna thug until he starts beating on her…I digress)

When you understand feminine psychology – she goes for bad boys and to a lesser extent tall guys, and to a lesser extent muscular guys – because she’s looking for a man that can protect her.

Any man that loses the beer belly gets points for being healthy.

But getting JACKED? Which means heavily muscled, visibly muscled, and average height or taller – she’s interested.  Adding the bad boy elements, tats, beard, motorcycle/muscle car, devil may care attitude – that’s chick magnet.

She’s not interested in his thoughts on Kamala Harris’ political machinations.

She does not care about his feelings on the Covid.

She knows not to ask about his opinion on her interior decorating skills.

She wants to feel protected at one level, and at a deeper level – “the seed is strong”.

So her biology, her primal psychology, and her socialization all lead to the same dude.

I don’t begrudge a woman for that.

Men’s biology, primal psychology, and socialization lead to us wanting a lot of women, all fertile and nubile, and when that’s not available, morally flexible. (c) Moma.

Traditionally, there were reciprocal duties to said protection.

Like if she got a banging body, she’s not gonna invite attention to it, particularly in your presence. (because if she cares about you, she’s not trying to get you into a fight to protect her “honor”).

And this was the least of those duties.  The very least.

Those days are long gone.

• • With the pill.
  • With education.
  • With good financial planning.
  • With government helping out when she can’t make ends meet…

She doesn’t need a man for his money, so she can focus on men that tickle her fancy.  She can engage in pick and choose feminism.

So now what?

What are we engineers, computer scientists, bankers, accountants, consultants, etc to do?

Obviously we have many paths to achieve attractiveness.  So that’s not a real issue.

Short guys, fat guys, the wrong skin color guys, have learned that whatever a woman says she wants, she rarely gets, and most of the time it’s the man’s personality – his effect on her emotions – that she hooks up with, has babies for, and sometimes marries.

She might as well send her list to Santa.

But do we step in when random chick is finna get hit up?

What if the chick is a friend we ain’t banging?

Isn’t that what 911 is for?

– Archie