Month: May 2020

Lol.  Shout to the homie ISO.

https://youtu.be/H6ONHDmDD8s

Little bit of red meat.

-Archie

One of the more interesting things about being subscribed to FDS (Female Dating Strategy) and TRP (The Red Pill) – is not only being unwelcome in both places – but how much they converge on the same ideas.

This is something Game with a capital G has always taught.  When you come at Game from the barbershop perspective, where the man giving you a fade is rapping with everyone in the shop – this is the thing you hear.

It doesn’t matter how much money you make, what you look like, how tall you are – the only thing that matters is how you make her feel.

In our circles, this is sort of taken as a truism.  Something we say, but don’t really practice.  Meanwhile, Pimps and Players, practice this.  It’s the foundation of their game.  Laughs and Cries, Highs and lows.  Even old school indirect pick up would start an interaction with a push (a tease) and then pull the chick back in with a compliment.

So I was taken aback when this meme popped up on their board.

Clearly, they mean it to be something positive, always treat a girl well, be consistent in action, don’t treat her poorly.  They are of course responding to her reality of attractive guys that use her for her body, sex, money, service etc.

Please, treat me well.

Yet, sadly, many of these women, attractive faces and bodies, are only drawn to men that treat them poorly.

What is a man to do?

-Archie

 

First thing first, If you don’t know what the opposite of Simping is, then you shouldn’t be using the word Simping.  Most these folks out here calling names, wouldn’t know where to buy a pair of gators if their lives depended on it.

Where are the fathers?

But this bit of fuckery….

https://www.npr.org/2020/05/01/849135404/embedded-covering-couples-during-covid

• Girl swipes right on guy.
• Has a few facebook dates.
• He is a bit weird.
• She’s sharing the play by play with her roommate (who’s 34 – thirty fucking four)
• She goes to the Beach (by herself)  He arranges for her AND HER ROOMMATE to get some food for her to take home. (Chicken Parm and a Salad, and a Veggie Burger for her roommate)
• Sweet and Creative
• Dinner for 2, but one of them can’t even eat
• I’m sure that there are girls that will come over, will hang out and I WILL NOT DO THAT
• She sends him a pic of her cooking.  He shows up.
• Roommate is taping this joint.
• “how long are you gonna keep this up”
• More “meal exchanges”
• “I’ve never felt this way”

Did Beta game work out? He provided so much material stuff and service.  HE MADE HER FEEL SPECIAL.

The update?  Things didn’t work out.  After all that simping…

Again I ask, WHERE ARE THE FATHERS?

Even if you don’t have a father figure, remember Rap used to be good…

-Archie

 

 

http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/sex/the-boss-and-the-secretary-five-reasons-powerful-men-get-beautiful-girls/news-story/ca43debec6dca4fb5609c20363df9e48

Amber Harrison has said her affair with Channel 7 CEO Tim Worner was “never about love. It was about sex and power”.

CHARISMA

It is not power alone that is an aphrodisiac, it is the combination of power and charisma.

Leadership expert Ronald E. Riggio describes the key elements of charisma as social and emotional expressiveness, sensitivity and control. That is, the ability to know what to say when, how to say it, and how to read a room.

This high-level communication ability means that a charismatic man knows exactly who he has to be to get what he wants in any situation. He knows what a young, beautiful girl likes to hear. He knows how to flatter and seduce, tease and amuse.

The same skills he’s honed to cajole unhappy clients, close deals and smooth over disagreements, are perfect for getting under the defences of a stranger.

You can tell this was written for women

A charismatic, powerful man is an excellent listener, is attentive and thoughtful and will work hard to make you laugh. They will have the means to shower you with gifts and take you to amazing places.

A charismatic person has the ability to make you feel like you’re the only person in the room. And they will not take ‘no’ for an answer. They will be charmingly persistent for as long as necessary.

There are lots of these articles that float around from time to time.

• • Usually written by women
  • Meant to warn women
  • Men are the enemy, the predators.  Women are innocents.
  • Ends up instructing men

Keep an Eye Out

– Archie

“Son, we live in a world that has walls, and those walls have to be guarded by men with guns. Who’s gonna do it? You? You, Lt. Weinburg? I have a greater responsibility than you could possibly fathom. You weep for Santiago, and you curse the marines. You have that luxury. You have the luxury of not knowing what I know. That Santiago’s death, while tragic, probably saved lives. And my existence, while grotesque and incomprehensible to you, saves lives. You don’t want the truth because deep down in places you don’t talk about at parties, you want me on that wall, you need me on that wall. We use words like honor, code, loyalty. We use these words as the backbone of a life spent defending something. You use them as a punchline.

Lulz.

Let’s talk about the Quarantine.

What I’ve been doing?  Working my cubicle job from the comfort of my own home.

What I should be doing? (Aka things that can 10x your game/life)

Mental – Meditation, to give myself more overall awareness if life.

Emotional Wellbeing – I don’t think I have any nagging emotional issues or self esteem problems.

Physical Fitness – I’ve never been a “hit the gym” type of dude. I’m more about walking, roaming city streets, knocking out a 2 step, maybe some calisthenics at the crib.  That’s just not available right now.

Stacking – I went from cooking 50% of my meals to 90% at this point.  But I’m also retooling.  As I was saying on the podcast, my technical/production role is now subject to work from home analysis.  A lot of upper management is going to see that they can trim down a lot of white collar real estate and find capable people willing to work for less.

I’m wondering if I should start offering coaching calls, strategy sessions for dudes, but I’d honestly rather just finish editing what i’ve written.

– Archie

The thread was called – Are High Value Men Even Worth the Effort?

Comment
byu/Rdrses from discussion
inFemaleDatingStrategy

“I was having a similar discussion with a guy I’m talking to.. He’s been bombarding me with gifts and attention and we talk a lot. I haven’t hung out with him yet due to the quarantine. I don’t know if he is worth my trouble even with everything he is doing for me. I’ve had so many bad experiences that my guard is extremely high. So I expressed it to him in a nicer way.

A Chump?  He’s pissed off by this.  “How dare this effing…”

But the player recognizes the game.

Here’s how player responded.

To which he made an interesting point: “Vulnerability is not a weakness, it’s a strength. Strength that shows you are not scared to expose your feelings and emotions.”

I thought about it. I sorta agree. You give up some of your power in order to become vulnerable. The outcome maybe better than what you had before or it may end in a heartbreak. The question is: WHO is the person you are willing to risk for. Not a lot of people are worth it “

Whether or not you watch The Simpsons is besides the point.  2 Feminists analyze why hyper competent female gets with imbecilic man throughout pop media.    Fred and Wilma, King of Queens, etc.

Now, you know the end of the story – chick gets with dude based on how he makes her feel, not his money/looks/status, etc.  THAT’S GAME.

I don’t post this YouTube for the conclusions that they draw.  There’s a meta-narrative about mediocre men and highly competent women, and this is an example.  Feminist Rage, as it were.

On the level, the interesting thing about this particular piece of criticism, is that Homer can pull much hotter tail. (Michelle Pfeifer episode) Whereas, we don’t really see Marge getting sweated by anyone else in her youth.  A player does come into her life later on, but at that point, H-Dog got his hooks deep in her.

Obviously they’re not going to into that because, well you know, THE NARRATIVE.

Be on the look out for the narrative.

In particular, when you holla at these highly educated women, who are also waist deep in this sort of ideology – recognize what narratives will let them sleep at night.

– Archie