Month: August 2018

There are 6 Basic Options when it comes to the logistics of the date.

An intermediate player immediately sees which options are better than others.  A veteran player sees all the positives in all of the options.

Let’s go through them.

This is the traditional option.  And if you’re new to the game – this is not a bad option.

This gives you basic control over her movements the entire time of the date  But it’s one of those things to be noticed, and not abused.  A guy with zero empathy and entirely narcissistic will drive a chick out to Timbuktu

And the girl is just trapped with some lame.

As we talked about earlier – the main event of the date – movies/dinner/art gallery/pit bull fight – that should take between 90-120 minutes.  If the distance between her place and the main event is more than say 30 minutes – you’re going to have to keep a good conversation going.

A guy with empathy, with a smidge of understanding of the human condition will keep the chick within city limits.

So a typical pick her up looks like

https://youtu.be/HAJdqzRM6Dw

And then you’re off to the races.

Getting into her place is a big deal, both practically and symbolically.  Even if she only lets you in part way – you can get a good gander of what the chicks is really like

It better be clean.

It better smell nice.

If she’s Asian, check to see where shoes are. (If they’re not right there at the doorway, make a mental note)

Undisclosed pets (if the dog doesn’t like you, that could be a problem)

The woman goes, “Well, we don’t know if Einstein will like you.”

“Well, can I meet with Einstein?”

“Yes, we’ll bring him to your house, but if he doesn’t like you, he can’t stay. We have to have good homes for these dogs.” She sounded very serious.

Okay. I have this really long driveway, and I open the gate for them, and I start to panic that Einstein is not going to like me. So I run into the kitchen, where I have these turkey meatballs, and I rub them all over my shoes.

High level game – where you don’t fall into the flow, where you don’t wish for the zone – where you actually use your brain – often requires a lot of problem solving.

The social default is that the man has his own place, and that he doesn’t enter hers just willy nilly.

With the pick up, and you have your own place – this isn’t something you HAVE to do.  But symbolically, entering her home is useful even still.

Very formal chick – not possible to get into her house without a good reason.

Some chicks run late – and will let you pick them up, chill out for a hot second and then go.  This is nice. She is inviting you in.  Makes it easier to get back.

The threshold to her place is a big deal at the end of the night.

Overall, this is a pretty solid beginner plan.

For you city dwellers – the advantage to this is you can pick a place to meet that’s favorable, and the nearby places are favorable.

When I’m in NYC – I like to meet up at any given bar in East Village/West Village.  So a drink here, a drink there, and what do ya know, where back in Washington Heights in some 90% Dominican Tenement.

So if you have to do a movie or a dinner, you know ahead of time

What is around you

Where to transition to from dinner

If the date is good, you don’t want it to end anywhere other than at your place, sharing a box of brownies.

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[Ed – So this is what the book sounds like.  I’m wondering if I should put out a free underground version with the pictures and links, and then Amazon version that’s less likely to get my sued, lol]

– Archie

https://youtu.be/Z1Foz-DgJMA

There is Game, a science practiced by the pimps, the macks, and the hustler.   I touch on that, but I’m no expert.  Better check for Rosebudd or Pimpin Ken if you want Game with a capital letter G.

Then there was the pick up era of the late 90’s to early/mid 00’s.   For the most part it was geeks that used the scientific method and freaks that would obsess about practical applications of applied psychology.

The “golden age” of the “community” was about thinking of new techniques, going out and testing them, and then reporting back results.  Things that people remember from that era were “peer reviewed”.  Negs and peacocking come to mind, but to me the most important thing was that the masterminds were 1) A standup comedian and 2) A magician.    Having a pile of jokes or a stack of tricks – things that you memorized the words and the delivery – that ALWAYS got emotional reactions from people.    The one currently disputed thing that those guys tested was that looks don’t matter, behavior does.

After getting exposed, the community went through a few iterations

– No more canned routines, everything was improvised

– A focus on charging up a girl’s emotional state, by you being charged up (the law of emotional transference)

– The Red Pill 2.0 – Looks matter, money matters, “Do you even lift Bro?”,  and feminism is evil. (and once you indict feminism, well everything else around it becomes fair game)

So what does Contemporary Game look like?

What can we learn from the various eras?

I still think it goes back to night game and pulling chicks in real life, and that face to face skills are the key – but they’re no longer the only key.