Guys come to the game mostly based on the fact that chicks are not rational, reasonable, accountable, or willing to follow through.
– “Is there something I can do to make her behavior consistent?”
– “I behave consistently, why doesn’t she follow my lead?”
– “When I change it up, she gets mad. When she changes it up, and I get mad, she gets mad at me for being mad at her…”
What game seems to do is explain some of their behavior – finds the internal logic.
Once you start viewing women through some of the game philosophies – things start to make a lot of sense.
What game hasn’t answered sufficiently in my opinion – is what to do to make something work long term.
She has to want it to work on an emotional level, not a logical one.
A chick will divorce you with 7 kids to parent and feed (See Brad Pitt)
So the work around has been to feed her emotional things to keep her mind occupied. But like exercise or a cat with a string – it gets bored and wants new challenges.
Thus there’s a bunch of things that guys have come up with – but overall – these chicks still get bored.
Betas buy her stuff, take her places, give her children.
Alphas are dismissive, don’t care about her feelings.
Players come through and listen to her thoughts, and give her insight on life.
None of it is good enough for all women for all of the time.
You can screen upfront, but unless you keep the chick locked in the basement – she’s going to get new information, new wants, new desires, and new feelings.
So you’re constantly having to keep her in check.
And then there are those guys that are so focused on self, and only intermittently turn their attention to females – and they give them quality time…but then it’s back to the program.
So if she wants those feelings, she has to work for them, because just her being there, just her giving sex is NOT enough.
Switch the game up.
More later.
-Archie
As the old adage goes, “show me a beautiful woman and I’ll show you a guy that’s tired of banging her.” I think it cuts both ways. Men and women get bored sexually, emotionally and romantically with monogamy. There is evidence pointing to humans being at core, “monogamish,” if not not just outright polyamorous. (See, Black Dragon blog). Do you agree with that assessment? Is it reasonable to expect that this chick that you’re into TODAY, will continue to be the The Bomb five years from now, when that new relationship energy has petered out and you’re a different person and she’s a different being? Is serial monogamy the best we can expect?
And, oh yeah, love the blog and its focus on the Dark Arts. Respect, Master WIA. *bows to sensei*
Black Dragon, New Relationship Energy? YOU’RE SPEAKING MY LANGUAGE!
I was chopping it up with Tyler on that. He’s had a lot of the LTR variations,
plus he’s got a couple kids. He’s big into Rollo, but his response was basically
“I know that when I have a girlfriend, my life is better”
So from a guy’s whose game is on other planet, he basically sees the abyss of
Female Hypergamy, and has made peace with it.
I think that’s where I am with these chicks. I can’t expect her to behave like
I need her to behave, so I just work around that.